Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Widening the community of interest through online declaration

Here is the story of an individual in the Central region who registered his Faith online. In this case, his investigation of the Faith involved both “remote” approaches and friendships with local believers. This account, shared by the regional seeker response specialist, highlights the various aspects of the enrollment process for online registrants, including affirmation and eMembership. The discussion also shows that family members of new believers are often part of community of interest.


Dear Friends,


I am honored to inform you that __, who registered online, has been affirmed. The enrollment can now be completed through the eMembership system. His record should appear in the Pending Members folder. . . .


__ first learned about the Bahá'í Faith from a local believer about a year ago. Through reading on the website and watching a podcast, he gathered enough information to know he was attracted. Then recently he reconnected with this believer. So he decided to go online and register. He is especially attracted to the principles, the aspect of community and unity in diversity.


__ and his wife have plans to visit the Bahá'í House of Worship very soon so she may meet some Bahá'ís and decide if she wants to register as well.


In closing __ asked if his wife registers, will she be interviewed by me or someone else. I told him there were several options, including having a local believer meet with her. __ said he would like me to do it. So I will keep you posted on what happens.


I hope you all have a joyous day.


Loving Bahá'i regards,


A

New believers' stories get us out of our routines

All of us can slide into routines. Something you do every day, every week, so much that it becomes automatic and maybe just at the back of your mind. Sometimes we can even make the Faith itself just a routine. We do all our activities—on autopilot. One of the things that can shake us out of our routines is the sheer joy and excitement of new believers. These two stories, shared by a regional seeker response specialist, illustrate several things: First, yet another reminder that there are indeed receptive souls everywhere. Second, they help us reflect on how a local community can welcome in and support new Bahá’ís. Third, they show the immense enthusiasm and consecration of new believers. Let’s all turn off our cruise control and strive to “run out of teaching materials”!


This new believer is teaching over half a dozen seekers. She had already declared when she contacted us—she was asking for literature to teach others, since she had run out of materials! She is really on fire.


She thinks of the Faith all the time, reads all the times, and finds seekers who are interested in the Faith all the time. She is now participating in a Book 1 study circle. I’ve also sent her the PowerPoint presentation that can be used when sharing Anna’s conversation, as well as explained how to enroll folks online and with hard copy cards. (When she declared at a Bahá’í gathering, it was so unexpected that someone had to drive to their home to get a registration card.)


I invited her to write up her story. Here are some excerpts: . . .


My Journey to the Bahá’í Faith


It all started years ago when I was younger and I felt unfulfilled with religion. I always wondered which religion was the “right” religion. I went to church occasionally but I never felt that I was fulfilled. I was not okay being in a religion where I as a woman was automatically considered less than a man and was told to be submissive to men. I just felt like God loved all His creations equally and therefore that meant we were all equal.


In high school, I had many friends of many different religions and was always interested in learning what each one was all about. I came to a conclusion that religions were connected and it felt like God was the same for all religions and He just used different Messengers.


I investigated a lot of religions to see if I could find something that I felt connected to, but could not. Then I learned that one of my classmates talking about his religion, and I learned he was a Bahá’í.


I did research on my own and it clicked. Here was something telling me that I as a woman was equal and that religions are truly meant to be a uniting force and not something that divides. It took me a while to get the conviction to go for it and truly strive to become a Bahá’í. I know it is right because I now feel a fulfillment that I never did before. I feel like I now belong and fit somewhere and that I'm not crazy for thinking the things that I have felt about religion. I am excited and want to learn more about the Faith and be active in it.


I’ve always been a Bahá’í; I’ve never not been one. I was starving for it, begging for it.


Since becoming a Bahá’í my soul feels different. It has changed my life, and I’m in it for life.


With love,


A


Here is another:


I know I’m a Bahá’í because I believe in everyone coming together as one to solve our world’s problems.


I was at a moment in my life when I needed something to help pick me up, and that’s when I found Bahá’u’lláh. He and His teachings have opened up a new way of life, a new door for me. And all of humankind should work together as one and not fight against each other but work and help each other.


This Faith and Bahá’u’lláh’s teachings and what He has done for us is going to make me appreciate life more and be happier with what I have and make the best of it. Now that He has my soul, because I believe, under Him I am safe.

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Children's class doorway to close and coherent involvement in society

This is an amazing report from Chico, CA (just advanced to A-stage, read on and you will see why). A group of friends take the initiative to start a children’s class. They reach out to the community and they carry out the necessary preparations and consultations. In a coherent manner and in collaboration with a government agency, the class also helps address an identified need in the wider society. Unexpected opposition and challenges are overcome with confidence and mature action; approaches are modified and refined. Eventually there are 3 core activities in 2 locations, the capacity and resolve of the friends is strengthened. What an inspiring example!


The following is a synopsis of the Bahá’ís’ relationship with the California Housing Improvement Project (CHIP) in Chico, California that emerged from efforts to establish Bahá’í children’s classes.


In July 2009, the friends in the Chico cluster were visiting homes in an apartment complex associated with the CHIP program. At this time, it was evident that the complex was a candidate for a children’s class, as children were abundant. The children were helpful in making contact with the apartment manager, who then referred us to the CHIP Director of Community Enrichment. Two days later a meeting was held. The CHIP representative was presented with information about children’s classes, Ruhi Books 1 and 3, examples of prayers and art samples, as well as the national Web site www.bahai.us. . . .


The CHIP representative took all the information and presented it at a later date to his Board of Directors. Within a week, the Bahá’ís were given permission to start a children’s class inside a building in the complex that was primarily used by the Head Start program. The only stipulation was that the Bahá’ís would offer homework assistance to all the children for the first 45 minutes of the class, and then those children who wanted to stay could continue for the last 45 minutes, which would be the Bahá’í class. CHIP felt that this set-up would ensure that the program could be universally used by all children and avoid giving the impression that the State agency was advocating one religion over another.


The class started in early May, 2009, once the Head Start program had concluded at the end of the school year. We invited all the residents to a kick-off BBQ and served over 75 burgers and ‘dogs’! It was mainly a night of starting friendships.


From the start, the class was a hit. Many days the room was filled with up to 25 children ranging in the ages from 2 1/2 to 12. After a few weeks of meeting Tuesdays and Thursdays for an hour and a half, we expanded classes to include a junior youth group on Saturdays. That group includes an average of 8 to 12 kids from ages 11-16.


Over the summer because there was no homework (summer vacation), we came up with our own academic activities to fulfill our agreement with CHIP. We included as many academics as we could for the vast ages and skill range within the class. Scholastics such as writing, reading, math, science, drama, art and physical education were covered outside—and within—the Bahá’í curriculum. The class was a success and many mothers began hanging around and the youth would even come to children’s class to help out. The trust of the residents grew and the knowledge of the children flourished.


Unfortunately, the apartment manager had strong feelings against the Bahá’í Faith. This had become apparent during early meetings. The teachers of the class tried to address this by sharing news about the transformation of the children in the class, as well as inviting the manager to observe the class. Sadly, these efforts did not change the manager’s feelings, who at one point visited every single apartment in the complex, recommending the parents to NOT send their children to the Bahá’í class; the manager’s children likewise attempted to pressure the other children to not attend the classes.


At this time, it was evident that, although the classes had the goal of unity and love, they were creating distress. So we thanked CHIP for the opportunity to work with it, and in August moved our class out of the Head Start building and onto the lawn of one family. Once school began again we remained true to our commitment to aid the children in the school work.


In our initial meetings with CHIP, the representative had expressed hope that the children’s classes could be expanded to other apartment complexes. CHIP requested that we consider starting classes in a complex across town next to one of the two junior high schools in Chico. At this point we were feeling cautious, but we met with the CHIP representative manager of this second complex. We had a frank consultation with this manager to ensure that they were comfortable with the classes and that the classes would not be undermined down the road. It was agreed that the Bahá’ís would offer a children’s class and homework help one day per week at that site. There was also an official agreement drawn up between the two parties. The teachers agreed to undergo a background check, to record class attendance, to submit a Program Plan, and to obtain written permission from families of all the participants. (Except for the Program Plan, we had already done all these steps at the first complex.)


In early October, in conjunction with the cluster meeting, teaching teams visited homes in this second complex offering a personal invitation to each family for an informational dinner. In addition to giving a verbal explanation about the children’s class, written information about the class was attached to the invitation.


A couple of weeks later, the Bahá’ís hosted a dinner in the complex’s beautiful community center. The dinner was well received. We had an information table with materials such as a copy of Ruhi Book 2, children’s prayers, photos of children’s classes, brochures with the basic principles of the Faith, and a detailed explanation about the children’s class. The goal was answer all questions so that the parents would know exactly what to expect. The room buzzed with several conversations, and many families made commitments for their children to come to class.


The first class at this new complex was held was last week and was attended by 6 children (an additional child showed up just for the homework help). To date, the children’s class at the first CHIP site meets one time per week on the lawn, the junior youth group meets each Saturday. The junior youth are focused on completing study of “Walking the Straight Path” and carrying out acts of service for the community, in addition to a lot of laughing and playing.

Loving response to adversity stimulates interest

Adversity—and our response to it—helps teach the Faith. A few weeks ago, the Orlando Bahá’í Center burned down in a fire that the police ultimately discovered to be caused by arson. This tragedy was covered by the local news, and the calm and loving response of the friends there (and their steadfastness in continuing to gather and carry out their community activities) stimulated a lot of interest in the Faith. Here is an account of two of those inquiries:


Dear Friends,


Just received a call from a seeker in Florida who was responding to the news about the fire at the Bahá’í Center in Orlando. She was ". . . so impressed by how the Bahá'í responded in the news about this terrible event—she seemed so calm and graceful!" [The secretary of the Orlando Local Spiritual Assembly was quoted in the news as saying, “We promote the harmony and unity of all faiths and races, and the equality of women and men. For us we don’t see anybody that could’ve possibly wanted to do this.”] She further went on to say that both she and her husband went online to learn more about the Bahá'í Faith and then she immediately identified with our teachings. She said, "I have believed these things all my life, and I had no idea there were others who believed like I do. I want to attend some activities in my area." I gave her the phone number of the regional specialist who works closely with Florida. . . .


The regional specialist then reports:


Dearest Ones,


I have been on he phone for about 25 minutes with this lovely lady who told me the story of her husband coming into her room to tell her of the newscast about the Orlando fire. He said to her, "You won't believe how compassionate this speaker was." And then he said to her, "I think this may be the faith you have been looking for."


I listened to her story of her years of search into every nook and cranny. She has been studying religion for a long time and asked wonderful, intelligent questions. She possesses a great respect for Islam and attended the Unitarian Church this past year. She wanted more detail about the origin of the Faith so I was able to share much about the Báb and Bahá’u’lláh. I shared some of the sacred scriptures, including the Hidden Word that says, "My calamity is My Providence, outwardly it is fire and vengeance, but inwardly it is light and mercy." She said, “Wow . . . that fits the fire at the center."


I just love this seeker. She has a wonderfully, investigative spirit.


The second inquiry because of the fire came in yesterday on line. The seeker’s note indicates a very sincere interest in the Faith and the Orlando fire is what directed her attention to us. I wrote her a warm letter of welcome last night and left a phone message for her also. I will keep you posted.

Monday, December 7, 2009

You just gotta love the technology age

Technology is opening the doors in so many different ways. It is providing a means to easily register one’s Faith in Bahá’u’lláh. It is also providing so many different opportunities to hear about the Faith for the first time, and to study it. Here are two intriguing examples shared by one of the regional seeker response specialists. Enjoy!


Yesterday I affirmed an online registrant. He had an interesting story to share:


__ found out about the Faith when he took a quiz at BeliefNet.com. After answering a series of questions about his beliefs, BeliefNet told him he was a Bahá’í. After that, he started reading about it and doing as much research as he could on his own. That led him ultimately to the public Web site, to his online registration, and my affirming his belief after sharing the fundamental verities. You never know how people will find the Faith!


That reminds me of someone who became a Bahá’í in my community earlier this year. She heard about the Faith on Jeopardy! She can't remember what the specific question and answer were, but the short description of the Faith within that answer sounded to her like what she already believed. So, she contacted the Bahá’ís, the regional specialist sent her our way, I shared Anna's Presentation with her, she took and completed Ruhi Book 1, and shortly after that she declared!


I love the technology age!

Monday, November 30, 2009

Studying the Word of God by phone

A vibrant and loving Bahá’í community life means more than just gathering for events. It means reaching out to the other believers—both recently declared and longtime—to nurture and empower them, whatever their situation. We have posted a number of stories on the blog about affirming a believer’s declaration over the phone. Here is a beautiful example of another type of “phone meeting”: two believers studying the Word of God together over the phone, systematically for 3 years. It has enhanced unity as well as assisted them to teach the Faith!


It is hard being alone—that is for sure. Here is something I am doing that maybe you can too. It all started 3 years ago. There is a believer in a nearby town who is wheelchair confined. So I started calling her every night at 7 pm and began reading to her, starting with one Bahá’í book. 3 years later here we are still reading almost every night. We usually read for a half an hour but sometimes more or less than that. We have gone through so many books. It's a great way to end the day and we both can discuss the Writings.


This believer has grown so much more courageous from this. While previously timid, she now mentions and teaches the faith every chance she gets. I will be calling her at 12:30 AM for the anniversary of the Ascension of ‘Abdu’l-Bahá, and we will observe this Holy Day over the phone. It keeps us both from being lonely and helps us both to deepen. It has been a very joyful experience.

Regional Council stimulates and encourages systematic grassroots seeker response

The national Seeker Response system involves the dedicated efforts of friends at the national, regional, and local levels working together to respond to souls that reach out to the Bahá’í community remotely, sometimes just for more information, and sometimes as new believers by declaring online. About a month ago, all of the Seeker Response “regional specialists” and members of the Regional Bahá’í Councils came together for an intense weekend conference, requested by the National Spiritual Assembly and hosted by the National Teaching Office at the Bahá’í National Center, to share experiences, identify best practices, and consult on how to make the system more effective. This gathering stimulated and inspired everyone involved.

A few weeks later, a Regional Bahá’í Council convened its own “mini-conference” for several clusters in a major metropolitan area in its region. Specifically invited to come were members of Local Spiritual Assemblies and Area Teaching Committees—one of the key goals was to build the capacity of Local Assemblies and Area Teaching Committees to collaborate and coordinate their efforts to respond to seekers, enroll new believers, and connect new believers to local friends and core activities. Each cluster consulted on how it could enhance its grassroots response to seekers and new believers. One particularly inspiring example is one cluster: it is at the C-stage of development, large in size, and has small groups of believers scattered across the cluster. Few in number, the believers have mobilized (and organized) themselves so they can more systematically respond to those individuals who reach out to the Bahá’í community. Here is a report from the regional specialist to a member of their respective Regional Bahá’í Council: . . .

Dear P,

I just had a delightful conversation with __ about the seekers and one registrant in the __ cluster. We reviewed the status of every seeker that was included on the list that was part of their materials for the conference.

First she said that all 3 of the friends from that cluster who attended the conference thought it was very valuable and that they learned a lot.

D, who lives in one side of the cluster, is willing to help follow-up with seekers via email or letter. __ has identified a couple of seekers that she thinks D can start with.

In the past week, a seeker from another side of the cluster contacted the Bahá’ís. __ is going to contact O, a Bahá'í in that area and ask if she is willing to be in touch with this new seeker and others who live in the western part of the cluster.

M and his wife have moved to the southern part of the cluster. They have started core activities and have had a recent declaration. Just a week ago, a seeker from their town contacted the Bahá’ís.

__ intends to enlist others in the cluster to help her follow-up with seekers. I suggested that she might want to keep in touch with the Auxiliary Board member about what she is doing. __ volunteered the idea that it might be good for all of the believers in the cluster who are helping with Seeker Response to periodically meet in person or by phone to collaborate on their initiatives.

I was very encouraged by my conversation.

Loving Bahá'i regards,

A